When Jane Sims’ husband passed away last fall, she felt a tremendous sense of loss. But during his funeral in November, it was as if he had sent an angel to lead her toward other widows who are feeling isolated and alone. So, she reached out to her supervisor, Todder Clark, at the Ridgeview Recreation Center about hosting a Valentine’s Day luncheon for other women who have lost their spouses.

Clark loved the idea, so Jane began lining up speakers for the event — a trusted friend, Pastor Peggy Geter of St. John Holiness International Church #1, and Grief Counselor Annette Walker of Carolina Caring, whom she met when her late husband entered the organization’s Hospice House before he passed. Since then, Walker has been a supportive help to Jane along her grief journey.

Jane wanted to make the day extra special, and bring hope and healing to all those who attended. So she put together widow survival kits and gave each widow a white rose. "I wanted them to celebrate the love they received from their spouses, and remember that they are still loved," Jane said.

Pastor Geter shared inspiring words, and encouraged the women to be patient with themselves and reach out for help when they need it. Walker pointed out the physical effects of grief on our bodies and reminded the group of the healing power of fellowship among widows and widowers. Walker also provided literature regarding local resources available at Carolina Caring for those who have suffered a loss. “We are here for you,” said Walker. “Even if your loved one did not pass with us, our services are available.”

If you’ve lost a loved one and could use support, please visit CarolinaCaring.org/support or call Carolina Caring at 828.466.0466.